About love and marriage Venerable Master

 Study: Venerable Master Source: Shanghai Family Forum> Life Square 2009-03-07 Hits: 2006 update :2009-3-8
one, the world speaks of love unreliable; marriage is morally binding < br> Chinese word Of course, many reasons for which many reasons, the most important reason is love; speak plainer, and understand that the love between men and women, this is the first factor six reincarnation. a few people that can see through, able to get this down? really see through, down, and you decided to go beyond six reincarnation. Buddha, one day read the sound of thousands of chanting, and if that hurdle Kanbu Po, or can not be reborn.
Why? the rope tied you, Amitabha pull Abdullah does not move, no way, must take the break. This is definitely not unsympathetic broken nonsense, no. with talk of you wearing, you that love is false, not true, is a lie to deceive themselves and others, at another time. how know is false? love today, tomorrow is another argument, and the day after the divorce, you see this is not fake? Where is the true! cool of you to think your love is true is false in the end, you will be conscious.
So, get married, you see our Chinese ancestors created the word, so I am opposed to simplified characters, simplified characters are destroyed by the Chinese characters, Chinese writing is smart text, tell you the word you see Open wisdom. You see married, Kyrgyzstan is very lucky, next to the mess around you, around the number of layers. What is marriage? to see the first woman to faint. Therefore, a clear head will not do this thing, it is foolish things will not do it. you look at Chinese ancestors created characters, called the word you see tell you to consciousness, you do not faint, do not let the wound was.
you think of the children of China's ancient sages of love, lessons , is really meticulous, inside there is no foreign languages, full of wisdom. So this text can not be changed, not changed. recite many people, fewer people died, cause? is Eros continued. Therefore, we must always think of the Buddha This Si Juji lessons, often read and often think, naturally for Eros to cold. cold our hearts to specific, out of the Three Realms six reincarnation, reborn in paradise really sure, it is especially noteworthy The.
So indeed Buddhism is built on the basis of intelligence, today we talk about reason, it is not feeling very calm fellow practitioners want to understand what it means. Buddha and saints not totally against our men and women in China married, no, it does not oppose it. Why? you do not want the Three Realms. do not want the three realms, then the world line method, although the law in this world have not faint, this is the lesson of our sages, but also to our expectations.
Therefore, the combination of husband and wife, not love in ancient times, ancient for that? parents to enrich people. Mr. has never met his wife, and how they fall in love? not love. What does it mean to get married ? their marriage have a common aim in life, this is correct, in order to achieve the ideal of living together, goals, love is secondary, not important. Now open ***, if the sages can to keep this in mind, it Your family must be very happy.
Therefore, to the life of the life goals, to think the first important criteria can not be lost in the emotional, fans will be emotionally painful. because the feeling has changed so much A man sooner or later are not the same mood, which is what Paul had the mentality of tomorrow! So much changes, unreliable.
true love who will never change? Buddhas and great Bodhisattvas, they will not change, He is not called love, another name is called compassion; in other words, mercy is a rational love, eternal love. people say that love is confusing world upside down mercy, compassion with love is a means, the same one meaning, one is born from the feelings which one is born from inside the rational, of you want to know the truth. (Amitabha Solutions by studying the report to 01-08-05)
marriage ceremony is of ancient man-lun:
Wing Wah, Eros is really confusing glory reversed, we Chinese people do not confuse not reversed, the Chinese people have long warned of this matter. You look at the ancient ritual in ancient times marriage is not for love? No, is the human ethics, the subject to fair and square. human ethics, the family line, as happy for this family.
very wise word marriage, men and women combine to teach you to remember not to faint, do not do a feel dizzy, saw a woman to faint to be lost, the the intention of the word here. So I used an old fellow practitioners in Taipei, Taichung know a girlfriend he probably talked about marriage thing, he wrote a letter to ask me, he said, married, OK? I wrote a postcard, write a word marriage, wrote back to his characters, he is not married.
I did not tell him to get married, nor advised him not to marry, teach him to read a good word see, in fact, he made a mistake, this is partial in the middle on both sides do not know. After the middle is a combination of not faint, that's it. marriage was a mistake, do not get married are wrong, faint that Bono is not is not faint Theravada Buddha, Bodhisattva is the end and not faint That's right. so he did not fully understand what I mean, now almost fifty years old is not married.
Chinese characters so incredible, really smart, is true wisdom. It is knowing, to understand the meaning of the word. So it is to remember, not really music, real music is born from within the inside of the. (Manuscripts effect 02-22-08)
find the object, must see and find the same solution:
the first two weeks I Hengstenberg Virginia, there is a fellow practitioners to ask me, he said he wants to get married and asked me what kind of object should look. I told him, I said: you are looking for the object, must see and find the same solution, Six Harmonies inside, in a lifetime to be with their struggle to the same direction, the same objective, with the same interests, so that the combination of each other is a helper, an assistant to each other, your family will be happy.
I said: can not talk about love, the love, today you love her, he loves you, a combination of the two of you, live in three days, problems are exposed, and he did not love her, she did not love him, family tragedy produced. I said that a lie is to decide not reliable. He heard later, that makes sense. Therefore, the family is also built on the basis of the Six Harmonies, is truly happy. do not know this truth, we should to life, personal happiness, happy family is very, very difficult. (awareness Buddhist 17-01-04)
marriage is morally binding:
hh fourth, in today's words, family harmony, family and everything. In ancient times, men and women get married and have a completely different meaning today, we heard that in ancient times married, have not heard of a divorce, the divorce rate is so high, why not in ancient times? This is the meaning of marriage is not the same. in ancient times Why marriage? two people have the common goal of life, assist each other to achieve the ideal of the common.
tell the truth, then, that goal is not to love. Now married for love, love changes, and so the divorce thing after another . ancients is moral, his sensible, he knows truth, he knew that the obligation should do, he is a combination of moral principles. Today's wedding is a combination of feelings, emotions are very fragile and easily broken. This is a modern marriage with the ancient times marriage completely different, completely different in terms of the argumentation. (Avatamsaka Sutra 12-17-0265)
Amah Rock:
We have talked about, Master told us that the source of the universe phenomena, Master said two words: , plants, minerals and natural phenomena, these animals are spiritual realization, is the Master spoke of .
men and women love, the dedication will be turned to stone over, where to speak Amah Rock, the woman on her husband to the strong love that when her husband went out, she was there watching, and that they turned to stone Nepalese Buddha Dharma by about ten are solemn in hell, not the physical body. flesh, we can not know their primary concern? to all of you that do not know.
dead, his soul left the body, just left, his body not bad, he did not know their primary concern; he You know he is living a primary concern, he would not raise the dead. so we know that their primary concern, and that joy is not the body, is knowledge of God. That is, we people, all animals are substances mixed with the spirit of such a body ; plants, minerals only the physical body, there is no knowledge of God. In Buddhism there called the with the management, must do a clear, and made to understand. (Ananda asked the Buddha to be good and bad through 15-13-82)
asked: br> A: You're asking the right person. Buddhists how to look at love, four words: hypocrites, so I talk too unkind and so they have no imagination. What is love? that word is not for you written very clearly? a heart, a subject that love is to feel the needs of others intentions. you will not even own Six Primary Afflictions are fit, you get to know other people's feelings, it is unlikely.
again, a If people do not love yourself, how to love others? that we are now young men and women will love yourself? what is love yourself? to constantly nurture their own goodness of heart, this is called will really love them, can always know how to injury, Yi parents worry; Germany has injury, Yi-pro-shame how to make your life worthwhile, full of Dharma joy.
first of all have self-love to talk about feelings, the first intelligent for the job is really to talk about this finish, we use a mathematical directly to answer questions like, what a plus one equals how much? b Oh? us to look at the couples with male and female friends now, one plus one equals how much? less than zero Oh? they were very resonance, really, saying not tell you, the lowest IQ of men and women in love This is not just theory, and I am personally verified, that's right. how to love in order not to vexation? very simple, you want nothing of love, you will not have trouble is that some recruiters will worry about the outcome. (happy life Lecture 52-138-19, Cai Li Xu teachers Speaker)
Second, love and compassion
the path to enlightenment, it is the Western Trinity deity: Buddha, Bodhisattva, other Bodhisattvas. front introduced is the meaning contained in Amitabha. , why not say love, say compassion? because there are feelings of love, compassion and love for which there is no emotion, pure reason.
In other words, based on the rational is called love mercy, if mercy inside with emotion called love is really about is the one thing. In other words, the Buddha compassion can be said that true love, true love forever. the world of people with feelings and love the thing was a fake, unreliable, and why? it will change, love to eventually become Yuan Jia, the enemy, it will become, so that love is false, not true, is not reliable. reliable love, need to find the Buddha because as it is true, the decision will not change.
So with the world talked about compassionate love is a thing that one is conscious, one is confused. lost when called love, awareness of the call of compassion, a change of terminology it is a thing. Goddess of Mercy on behalf of self- of compassion inside, we call mercy, is clean, not stained, equal, no preference. (note the Amitabha Sutra Romance 01-03-008)
only the Buddha as Bodhisattva, Buddha into Bodhisattva he really, really never change. So he love all living beings, never change. you respect him, and he love you; you hate him, even kill him, he love you, he will never change, it is true The.
three hath departed is not removed, the dust is not a
. say jump best, and most people think that jump should do, no problem; intercede empty, the situation if the air out we will have it! Most people think it is very important. One year, the For Guang Shan to do college student summer camp, Master Hsing Yun to me to talk Idealism, also mentioned the situation to be broken.
when one female student to ask questions: Master, if people do not love, then what does that mean? I said: Well! just a river in Kaohsiung, called love, you It can jump in there, love always be. She did not know six, why are you in six reincarnation? is to be the harm, not yet awakened! put it bluntly, you do not value the kind of love is a text, and why? not fake Really, love today, two days later, divorced, odds do not love, is not true! you want to know clearly the people in this world six speeches are unreliable and can not take it seriously, hypocrites.
not only the words of others can not believe that they own can not believe it. you believe yourself? mind has changed again tomorrow, can not believe my own, and why? which the delusional idea is too complex, ever-changing, all is false, how can really! I study Buddhism, I know, people say true or false, false true, all is illusion, all conditions enforcement.
of you to know, really love, really love, there is only Buddha, Buddha is not called the situation is not called love, another name One, called compassion, mercy is love, will never change. you respect the Buddha, the Buddha love you, you slander him, insulting him and kill him, he still loves you, never changed, it is true . Buddhas and Bodhisattvas say few days, his heart has changed, not really, all is not true, so do not care, do not mind it, then you're right, called wisdom of the. the world used by Bono heart, called the half-hearted, how can really!
Buddhism is to , that is wisdom; sensual, emotional intelligence becomes. Love is a thing with Chile, but Confusion and Realization different; consciousness, and the situation becomes wisdom; confused, and wisdom of feelings. turn trouble into enlightenment, we should it turn. German speaking, practice to turn knowledge into wisdom. of the classic, the Research and Education Solutions to open the round, practice to turn knowledge into wisdom, which is very important, is the general practice program.
;, birth and death is the thought, delusions, jump to enjoy the empty, the heart, there is no birth and death, delusion, there is no, there is no death. reincarnation come from? is coming from inside the idea of birth and death. In other words , as long as you have a delusion, as long as you have the idea to determine the cycle of not six, which we can not do not know. In other words, a lot of Buddhist Dharma, you go to try, which Famennian inside, to no idea of the real, You have the ability to transcend the Three Realms.
If you study the Dharma repair, maintenance was also very hard for a long time, that idea is still paranoid, you have to understand that you will not get the Three Realms, you said the problem more serious. It is also about Because of this, we have to ask Buddha, Buddha Dharma alone can bring industry died, the idea is that you keep the birth and death, right! can be reborn. four thousand way inside, only such one, can not break out of delusion have to go; addition to this one, the Dharma did not bring any industry, being, the heart must be off, you got to the three realms, to be able to cycle out of life and death cycle of the sea is six. We find out, figured it out only know that there are hardly easy to Dharma.
Guren Jiang: Buddha Dharma is easy way street, with the key to the other one to the Pure Land Dharma, difficult way street, sad to say! but this is easy way street, hard to believe it! you do not believe it no way out. Many hard-way street, it is easy Jiaoren believe that the letter of the white busy life, not the results. The Famennian difficult letter of some, he went out, very lucky, are out. (King Kong Wisdom Project Report 09-23-008)
down family ties, love:
we want to go to paradise! to the Paradise of course we wanted to lay down this world, there is nostalgia in this world, there are worries, and put no less, and it can not go! I want to go, and I have some pro-family dependents, and some good friends, Nanbannanshe; especially the mother's family, his wife's love, the most difficult to put down. this thing is often you Buddha's time, who have decided, in the Beige inclusion among the Buddha's effort to destroy you.
you want success, these inclusions should be put down, can not have inclusion, you can have one heart. Otherwise, although the Buddha, not read as one said, is the heart, said study complex. hybrid concept of course, good for the heart, said, kung fu impure, unreliable reborn in this life; as one study says, this life is to determine the reliability died. (Avatamsaka Sutra 12-17-- 1594)
Q: Great is said, off, why? This is greed. If the idea is not really lust, lust of the things you do not need? except in the Dharma and benefit living table method, if not belong to table method, the degree of ease of living beings, there is no need This is our common sense can be understood. (Buddhist Q 21-390)
Dixian old Zen monk's apprentice:
【Yunhe to dried sea Eros, an increase of compassion sea.】
This one is really speaking, is in the Magic Land, the Buddha among environment. In particular, turn it say it, why? all the Magic Land, which, the most powerful! most serious! Buddha said: . fundamental disconnect, how can you got six out of reincarnation? People at this very seriously, that this is justified, this is confusing reversed.
but only Buddha see clearly understand it, know six cycle how it happened, that is, the read error. feeling stubborn perseverance in love, and this bad! your Dharma, whether you are a Zen, Zen in the martial arts better, perhaps you read the articles, Tan said the old Master Foqi them, we put it in writing, attached to the Later, the Earth God to do. Why do earth god it? Eros did not break.
the heart and out of his home, his wife does not agree, his wife committed suicide, he also ignored. This person can be described as hard-hearted! how could he with Eros? There! erotic men and women he cut off, he's first made, conversion of the disciples more, more support, he arrogant heart is up, you say he has Eros? Eros is not some of the color of fame and fortune is Eros, the power is Eros, Eros is also on the position, and even of Buddhism, you still have desire, I like the classics, I like the path to enlightenment, I like the Buddha.
I have often heard that some people call him the Pure Land school, fundamental. Dharma if you do not put this situation executive removal, your further studies in all martial arts, if the repair was really good, have become the next life blessings, no results! of you to know, from the six cycle constitutes a small fruit, small with the result . You can go beyond ten realm, which is too large fruit. We practice one can not but know!
can not put these things, cut off from the heart inside it, unplug it, always bring awareness. dried up your favorite people, care for their favorite, now expanded the amount of this heart, to love all living beings, care for all living beings, with pure heart, the heart of equality, compassion to care. (Flower Adornment Sutra line of products ready Haiyun monk Chapter 12-14-02)
Q: How off erotic, sophisticated practice?
A: awful things is a good question, very important, and why? passion that can not break off, Buddha can not be achieved . So how to go off? must be reasonable, you really find out the truth, you know it is harmful to no benefit, the so-called Chinese people is it? Buddhist precepts which, the two most important, and one killing, one is lust. This is one of two stains, put all your effort and destroyed, so there must be a high degree of suspicion.
decided not to practice but this whole life, your whole life, have personal experience Buddhism, Buddhist Dhamma encountered inside, not a simple matter. the decision you have taken past life Dharma, in this life you have met this fate, will have encountered interest, students will be zealous, not I, II, III.
you in this auditorium Just once, once only heard by listening to very happy, are past lives many lifetimes repair product of good roots. Why can not accomplish? is probably one of killing, one is prostitution , you make two, so you can not success. You can tell in the cycle inside makeup! day that two homework passes, you can escape, you can improve. this reason, do not do not know. ( Buddhist Q 21-383)
【If all the world. sentient beings. The heart is not prostitution. not continue with its life and death phase. Yu Xiu samadhi. Chenlao this out. hath departed not eliminated. dust is not out. longitudinal How wise. Meditation is the former. such as uninterruptible sex. will drop Magic.】 mm sutra
Note: Old Master who had speech Saha, read different not Shengjing Tu